Hey Ali... just wanted to let you know that I'm prayin' for you about this one... tricky... been there (a little bit -on both sides even). How you respond to this is really important (sorry that sounds scary rather than encouraging). The thing is, he really does think he's in love with you. Love his little heart, he's just 14 I remember thinking I was pretty dang close to "in love" at that age too, my feelings were really strong, but they weren't "love" they were just "new" - a deep friendship type love that I'd never experienced before... you could encourage him with that - you guys do have something special, but it isn't "that" sort of love... it's better Let us know how it goes... praying for ya.